Here's my contribution:
I started thinking about place because I'm not from anywhere, something I noticed fairly early in life. My father was an industrial adventurer, a foundry equipment salesman who kept moving the family from the South, which was my mother's Place, to the North, which was his place. I don't think they ever thought much about how their "mixed marriage" was affected by their respective places. That is, I know they had that semi-subliminal reaction one gets in a "foreign" place: "These are not my people." Did either one of them go beyond that? There isn't any evidence of it. I know my father tried to ingratiate himself to the Southern Family, and my mother did her best, with several years in the north. But their major response (and I don't think they really THOUGHT about it in cultural terms), was to move back and forth, back and forth--two or three years in Michigan, two or three in Alabama, etc.
When you're not from anywhere, you notice things about people who are. They have place memories--drug stores where they bought phosphates, shoe stores where they were made to buy Buster Browns, drive-in movies and drive-in restaurants. They remember back roads and canyons, river banks and cliffs from which they swung their legs and told their friends lies. They remember houses, rooms, trees that got bigger and bigger as they aged. They remember vacations from which they came "home," which means something definite to them. Those of us from nowhere in particular sometimes long for those kinds of memories, but we'll never have them.
I have houses, plural, from which I date the events in my life. We were living in the big Victorian house in Ohio when my father bought his first Thunderbird and I started a club called the Knights Explorers Club. We were living in Birmingham, Alabama when I tried out for Miss Alabama and made the semi-finals. JF and I were living in a tiny pocket-handkerchief apartment when my first child was born.
My view of place, then, is skewed by the fact that I don't really have one. Because I will never really belong anywhere, I am fascinated by those who do, and by the stories that emerge when they do. And because I am not from anywhere, I can see layers of culture that are invisible to most people who haven't done much traveling. So much of our behavior is culture-bound and that fact is mostly invisible, subliminal. Because I have to pay attention to what I say and do (since I'm not from here), I often see what is invisible to others.
I write about culture and about place from my peculiar vantage point because I'm obsessed with it, fascinated by it, drawn again and again into its stories. I once read that people write because of some lack in themselves, and this might be true of me. I have fallen in love with a place-- the Berkshires of Western Massachusetts. I have given it years of myself, years of words and praise. And married a man who can't STAND it there. Too cold. Terrible people, according to him. And so, the one place I might have claimed as my own is denied me, as long as I stay married to this guy, at least. Which looks likely. He's a misplaced person, too. Born in Algeria, transplanted by violent politics to France, and transplanted again by love to the States.
